The most common misconception during a divorce is that it is unlikely for the father to receive custody of the child. Although more mothers are granted full custody, approximately 82% of mothers seek full custody of their children in comparison to only 33% of men. In short, the reason why mothers are more likely to be awarded custody boils down to the fact that they are more likely to ask for it in the first place. If you are a father looking to get full custody of your child, don't hesitate to ask for it and to take the issue to court. Surprisingly, your chances of being awarded full custody are relatively high depending on several factors. This article will explore 3 of the most crucial factors that make a huge difference on the outcome of custody. Read more.
The Relationship Between the Father and Child vs. the Mother and Child
First and foremost, the courts will need to take into account the strength and type of relationship that both the father and the mother have with the child. During the divorce, you want to make sure that you be as active and involved as you can in your child's life. This may include volunteering at your child's school, putting in an effort to attend all of their sport games or school plays, and also spending time outside of school to bond. Maintain immaculate records regarding when you saw your child, the duration of time that you spent with him or her and the type of activity that you both participated in.
The type of relationship that your child has with the mother will also be taken into account. In the eyes of the court, it is important for the child to have a good relationship with both parents. If the child does not have a good relationship with the mother or has been neglected before by the mother, the father will have a better chance at being awarded full custody. If you are aware of these issues, it is crucial that you can document it to submit as evidence in court. Your child may be asked to testify in court as well regarding his or her relationship with both parents.
Whether There Have Been Previous Records of Abuse, Neglect or Criminal Convictions
Previous allegations of abuse or neglect made by the child or made by the other parent will be thoroughly investigated by the courts. Parents who have records of abuse or neglect in their history are less likely to be awarded full custody of their child. In short, you want to maintain an immaculate record.
As courts strive to make custody decisions that will lead to the best interests of the child, parents that have been charged with a criminal conviction, whether it be a felony or a misdemeanor, are also at a disadvantage. The type of charges that were laid against each parent will be considered in court.
The Preparations that the Father Has Made to Accommodate the Child and Stability of Living
Last but not least, the court will also consider whether the father, in particular, has made any accommodations for the child, and the living conditions of each parent. For example, the court will consider the work schedule of each parent to determine which parent will be able to devote and dedicate the most time to the child. In addition, the court may want to see whether each parent has made proper living arrangements and accommodations for the child. In short, prepare a room for your child, and be prepared to answer questions regarding housing plans.
Your job stability, as well as other factors, will also be taken into consideration. For example, can you support your child with the income that you are earning? To prove that you are responsible, make sure that you pay child support on time.
Conclusion
Just because you are the father does not mean that you may not be granted full custody. If you are willing to fight for your child, there is a high chance that you will succeed provided that you are able to offer a good living environment for your child, and provided that you have a stable lifestyle.
